Guys Decoded: Top Signs that He’s Really Into You

You spend time together and find yourself crushing on a guy. Even if you’ve started dating, that age old question still runs through every girl’s mind: Is he really that into me? You can look for a few clear signs to find out how he really feels.

Does he tell you he likes you?

If he says flat out that he likes you, come on girl, then that settles that. He might not say “I like you” straight out, but things like “I miss you” may mean he’s dropping a hint that he’s falling for you.

Does he call and text?

No one wants a guy that constantly sends calls and texts like a stalker, but if a guy contacts you on a regular basis, chances are, he’s into you, especially if he calls you on the phone. Going out of his way to chat on the phone usually means he wants to hear your voice and get to know you better. So if he calls you a lot, whatever you’re doing, keep it up!

What does his body language tell you?

Body language tells a lot without saying it. Does he stand close when he talks to you? Does he look at you and smile often? Is he touchy-feely during a conversation? Does he try to sit near you when you hang out? If so, all of these signs say: Yep, he likes you!.

Does he shower you with compliments?

Who doesn’t like compliments? If a guy goes out of his way to say you look good, that he likes your style, that you make him laugh, whatever… if he says nice things, that’s a big sign that he’s crushing.

Do his friends know you?

If a guy likes a girl, his boys have heard about you already. Does he bring you to his friends? Do his friends tease him a bit when you guys hang out? If so, it sounds like this guy has a crush on you for sure.

Does he make plans to see you?

When a guy likes you, he will make an effort to see you.  If he’s into you, he will make time to see you and ask to hang out. Period.

Does he open up to you?

If a guy opens up about himself, he wants to know you on a deeper level. That doesn’t mean late night booty calls. If he likes you, he will treat you like a friend, ask questions, and listen.

He’s into you – So what now?

If you answered yes to all or most of these questions, then it sounds like this guy is definitely into you. Play it cool and keep being yourself. Of course, you can still show him that you like him back, but remember to stay true to the awesome person he fell for in the first place.